HANZKY: College Life

First Few Days Alone With Two Kids

College Life June 12, 2008

The house is on the market now. We listed last weekend, sign contract nya hari Jum’at kemaren tanggal 15. Sebenernya mau di listingnya hari Senen nya, tapi ternyata harus pas sign contract nya, jadi as of today, Days On the Market nya udah 4 hari deh. We priced it at $178,000…I think it’s a fair price, the other houses in the neighborhoods who are 500 sq feet smaller priced their house around $165,000..so ours is definitely a good deal. We are not reaping any profit, in fact, we are losing money…but that’s fine with us, especially when you factor in the opportunity cost that we’ll be missing if we’re still here.

We decided to list with Lucy and Lacey, waktu hari apa tuh yah, gue sholat istkharah dan setelah itu semakin mantep sama mereka. Lagian yah, selling a house is a stressful thing, you want someone who is reliable to work with, someone who you can contact anytime of the day, someone who will responds to your every inquiries fast….and of course someone who is nice, who has a high standard of honesty and integrity.

Pas hari Jum’at, for sale sign nya di pasang. Sabtu nya kita masih beres beres, nge drop in barang di Goodwill, di Once upon a child, sore nya nge drop barang di storage. Minggu nya Oki pun masih nge cat trus kita ke rumah Manda untuk nge drop barang barang di storage nya. Hari Senin Lacey pasang listing sheet nya di depan rumah, gue lanjut beres beres dan foto foto rumah juga. Oki posting rumahnya di Zillow.com. Hari ini gue masih foto foto, tinggal laundry room aja yang belom di foto. Rumahnya udah ada di MLS. Hopefully we’ll get a showing soon..amiiin.

Tadi nya gue mikirnya the best scenario would be rumahnya laku sebelom melahirkan, tapi pindahan ke apartemennya setelah melahirkan. Sekarang gue berharapnya rumahnya laku cepet aja dehh, langsung pindahan ke apartemen juga nggak pa pa, I’m ready to move on!!. Baru nyadar dan ngerasain nih kalo jual rumah, especially at this time of day is really a stressful job!!

Wish us luck!!

Which Agent to Choose?

College Life February 09, 2008

Looking for passion?

College Life May 21, 2007

You know, I've always admired and envied people who are passionate about what they are doing. Not many people can wake up in the morning and feel excited about doing the things they have to do that day. I believe that finding passion equals to happiness, and those who have found their passion and continue working on it will have a fulfilling life.

Sayangnya memang banyak orang yang belum nemu passion nya di mana, some are just clueless dan akhirnya ngelakuin apa yang kayanya bakalan banyak demand nya di job market. Ada juga yang akhirnya memang jatuh cinta sama yang di kerjainnya dan akhirnya jadi passionate dengan kerjaannya. Tapi banyak juga yang stuck in a rut, benci sama kerjaannya tapi nggak tau harus gimana lagi. Ada lagi yang sebenernya tau passionnya di mana tapi nggak berani untuk keluar dari comfort zone nya dengan alasannya masing masing.

Some are lucky enough to have the calling, to know what is it exactly that they want to do in the future and to have the talent and the opportunity to follow through and showcase their abilities. Ada yang memang dari kecil hobi dan memang jago akan sesuatu seperti menggambar, atau main musik, olah raga dan lain sebagai nya.

Banyak juga yang ngerasa passionnya itu ada di satu bidang, fotografi misalnya. Padahal megang kamera juga jarang. To me, that's not passion. If you are passionate about something, you should have been doing it all along. Kalo memang suka fotografi ya berarti setiap hari udah nenteng kamera, foto foto sana sini. If you haven't been doing it, that means you are not passionate about it. Kalau memang belum ada kamera yang canggih ya beli aja dulu alternatif nya yang jauh lebih murah. Everybody has to start somewhere, just use whatever tool you have right now, and better things will be found along the way. Take lots of pictures, compile a portfolio, volunteer to help a photo shoot because when you are willing to go out and put together a solid work without any pay, you will get noticed and people will come calling you eventually.

Today is my birthday, and one of the things that I'm thankful is that I have finally found my passion. It is indeed satisfying to finally put my enthusiasm into action and find myself doing what I meant to be doing. It's a wonderful feeling to have that goal in my life and to know the step towards achieving it and believe that I can actually make those dreams come true... because I have a strong desire to be better and my passion is my greatest strength..=)

So Happy Birthday My Dear Self!!

yea, i remember

College Life August 24, 2006

dec 1998 - dec 1999
i remember missing my flight in dallas, the broken suitcase, i remember what i saw at starbucks in lambert airport st. louis, i remember the warm feeling i had inside, i remember the bart shuttle ride all the way to carbondale, i remember super 8 motel, my first visit to the university mall at 8 o clock at night by myself, i remember the ck jeans i bought, i remember big lots, i remember sunichi who helped me moving to the new place with his small car, i remember d's room on lower level of ambassador hall, i remember the old yellow cab that took 30 minutes to arrive, i remember walking to GTE phone company office and to mc donalds student center with frank, ordering 20 pieces of chicken nugget, i remember my first taste of papa john pizza and its cheese stick, i remember d forgetting his psychology final and we had to walk all the way to the clinic to get a letter from the doctor in the cold weather, i remember the smell of escada sport and kenzo daun, i can still smell the scent now, i remember wearing the beautiful wedges i bought in perth all the time, i remember visiting danang at barnes jewish hospital, red roof inn, sahur @ steak and shake, i remember the scary accident on highway 64 in cikage's car, i remember the cake that cikage gave me, there was 'hani oki forever' written on it, i remember the mukena i gave her, i remember the flight to Troy NY, my first visit to NYC, soho, the beautiful bridges, my first snow, my first visit to gay club, john, dodi, mike & bryan the gay couple, i remember rozanna, crossgate mall and price shopper, I remember visiting yaner at amherst, connecticut, celebrating new years eve in new york, i remember penang, kebab @ in front of the hilton, i remember the new york kids, i remember the three way call with aan and my mom. i remember meeting aan, kak angel, mas andy and muce at woodbury outlet, i remember the nylon bubble jacket from express, mine was red and hers was blue, i remember the mc donalds, the road trip home with the honda accord. i remember retno. i remember 705 south poplar and everything that happened there. i remember mbak nanda and bryan visit, bringing the fish car, taking pictures at the student center, lunch at garfields. i remember john a logan college @ carterville, i remember the placement test, i remember my french class and that grandma sitting next to me, i remember my classmate's face vividly, i remember the salukis express bus, waiting by the intersection on main street or at the student center, i remember the old driver and the fat driver who were always nice to me, i remember terry crain and all of his help, i remember struggling with my math class, i remember andrea, pedro, ilsa the philippine lady and guadalupe, i remember jennifer who was always asking me to wait for her and accompanying her to smoke outside in between classes, domonique, takao, frank, adrian, ted. i remember 'malik', I remember the late night shopping @ walmart, I remember pak sas, mbak wida, mas heru and mbak susi, i remember my first lebaran in states, 7 days old baby kania, mas abdul and mbak maya, i remember umar, the cutest baby boy before jibran, i remember january 25, i remember the trip to milwaukee during spring break, aan, kak angel, mas anka and mas demmy, buying a gap bag, the mexican restaurant, my virst chicago trip, big bowl, vintage shops at state street, urban outfitters, michigan lake, the picture in front of the water fountain, i remember the first time we went to the cinema to watch analyze this, i remember 'menanti', a song by koes ploes, i remember the confession..:(, i remember the summer concert outside of shyrock auditorium, i remember 709 west college and sheryl the landlord with her yukon denali, i remember the second road trip to new york, i remember domonique tagging along with us to dayton, Ohio, i remember niagara falls, i remember saratoga, i remember mbak nung visit, the atlanta trip, mbak lia and her friends, the coke museum, the lenox mall, the cnn office, i remember eating @ mc donalds by the arch that is no longer there now, i remember getting sick since i've lost a lot of weight, the trip to memorial hospital, the failing hair and the stress, I remember watching my first salukis game during thanksgiving week. i remember his old toshiba laptop, i remember irc, dancepool and jakarta channel, i remember the trip to tampa, to orlando, hal dillah, mbak tuti, hard rock cafe orlando. i remember the trip back home, stopping at KL and sightseeing with lin and nana at midnight, i remember the street vendor, the carrot susu, i remember ibu and ayah, azrul and azril. i remember the fight and the tears and the not so unpleasant happening. i remember new year @ zanzibar, i remember tenda semanggi too.

january 2000 - december 2000
i remember meeting yoga for the first time, i remember rafi and lin and their house behind the memorial hospital, i remember the pictures we took there, the hawaian shirt from structure (now express man) and the silver chain necklace, i remember my first attempt to build a website, i remember joining the HTML for beginner class at the library, i remember anne and hal maman's website, playing with frontpage and fireworks, i remember siucampus idea, i remember kopies and more, i remember syaiful, i remember mbak nanda, bryan and mike visit, the supper at dennys with dante, miquel, jasmine and rafie, the moon over my hammy, i remember the st. louis visit, my first trip to the top of the arch, i remember the trip to metropolis, the superman town, i remember the casino, the trip to paducah kentucky, i remember club traz, i remember the mazda car from mas abdul, i remember marion mall, d.e.b and target, i remember staying at home when everyone was at the red hot chilli paper and foo fighters concert, i remember nila and her sleepovers at my apartment, i remember her parents, the dinner at hunan restaurant, i remember she accidentaly left her diary in my apt when she moved to seattle, i remember tina and her car. i remember the dmv and that jerk, i remember failing my driving test because of some stupid way to park uphill, i remember mr crashaw my micro economy teacher, i remember that nice guy from hongkong, i remember studying with karin the clown for my statistic class, i remember stix pizza and going to the strip at 2 o'clock at night on the weekend to see the riot, i remember dante, i remember reading about him and seeing his pictures at daily egyptian, i remember him cooking chicken teriyaki for us, i remember prego vegetable lasagna, i remember the philly cheese steak at chicago hotdog that we ate every other day, i remember the yard sale at the arena, the boat race, i remember the party at d's boss, mayra's house, i remember her house, her cats, her dogs and her iguana and her pottery studio at the back of her house, i remember marvin, sherly and sri his coworker, i remember the noodle martabak we brought, i remember lava design, i remember maria's huge house, i remember the master bedroom and the huge walk in closet, i remember bbq at evergren park, i remember the hp desktop, i remember the fossil watch i gave him for his birthday, i remember the laundromat and edy's ice cream, i remember 709 south poplar and finally an apt with a washer dryer inside, i remember katie my neighbor, i remember helping lin and rafi moved to st. louis, i remember eating at mai lee and thai seafood cafe (now thai pizza) for the first time, i remember shrimp 101 (now shrimp 105), i remember meeting dina, sisi and boni for the first time in delmar, i remember herrin, i remember the chinese buffet with the indonesian kids who worked there, i remember painting the office yellow, i remember the army pants he wore, i remember darrel and rhonda and their mobile home, i remember hucks gas station, i remember mbak wida's mom and her art show, i remember clubbing at washington avenue, i remember my first time blogging, i remember LAX and malaysian airline with vanda and rifky, i remember visiting KL again, i remember ayah was getting sick and had to use the wheelchair, i remember l
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and nana at KLIA.

january 2001 - december 2001
i remember transfering to siuc, i remember visiting st. louis with yoga, dante and his friends, taking pictures at the gas station on ladue and lindbergh, meeting dina and sisi at banana republic galleria, visiting lin when she worked at express galleria, i remember getting lots of steak and shake gift certificate from rafi, i remember accompanying d to the career fair, i remember driving all the way to st. louis for the interview at sbc wearing his new suit he bought at value city (hihihi), i remember mastercard too and waiting in the car in maryland heights, i remember doing mock interview on the way there from carbondale, i remember the phone call regarding the acceptance, i remember the welcome package he got from sbc, i remember d graduation ceremony, i remember he decided to go at the very last minute, i remember the picture of him and his friend yue that i took with kodak disposable camera, i remember the outfit that i had on, i remember helping yoga moving to bloomington, indiana, the st. louis trip, rafi and lin moving back to malaysia, i remember springfield IL and the lincoln's tombstone, the chicago trip, the museum, the gurnee mills, cahokia wisconsin @ widia's and her brother place, wulan who was visiting from LA and the traffic on the way to chicago, i remember the flip flop accident in michigan avenue, the embarassing yet tragic incident, the union station, i remember crying my eyes out in the cab, i remember visiting purdue and indiana university, the ayam gosong, i remember dita and basir and his apartment, i remember the bicyle apartment, ben and jerry, urban outfitters, dinner at the thai's restaurant courtesy of yoga, i remember d moving to st. louis, his first day at the office wearing the blue long sleeve shirt and the messenger bag from the gap, i remember the park terrace apt, i remember my summer classes at swic, i remember akbar, the uzbekistan guy, i remember bajaj and the endless chatting session with him, i remember all my classes was canceled for some weird reason, i remember moving to ambassador hall on the main floor, i remember the bed sheet i got at target, i remember volunteering for orientation, i remember the nigerian guys and their crazy love for indomie, i remember meeting ben for the first time, i remember vero and all of her drama, i remember her sister house in johnsborough, i even remember gary and scott, i remember first cellular, i remember the webcam, i remember being a publication committee at the international student council and a vice president for asian student association and friends, i remember struggling on my finance class,i remember eating tuna caserole all the time, i remember waking up to the tragic news of 9/11, i remember everyone was so panicked at the student center, i remember my classes were cancelled, i remember his parents visit, i remember the chicago visit in the fall, i remember mbak nanda was crying at the gate, i remember the sold out game against indiana university, it was indeed one of the best games ever, i remember the green neon car and taking everybody around.

january 2002 - may 2003
i remember being sick on new year's eve, i remember i had dinner at steak and shake and that chicken gumbo soup was making me even sicker, i remember watching mtv countdown at timesquare on tv, i remember karen, i remember martha and her delicious rendang, laslo, ling, kim, donna and anju, marilu and paula, i remember that french girl and vincent, her ex boyfriend, i remember watching the news about aaliyah passed away, i remember modelling for yvonne at her final fashion show, i remember the sleepless night, i remember the dream team with lucas, carson and tim, i remember rhen hall, i remember carson telling everybody i was screwing the curve on my marketing class cause i was the one with the A while the second highest was a C, i remember my marketing 435, 493, 439, i remember the cases, the airline simulation, the capstone class, the presentation, the assignment, the group meetings, i remember it was the best year ever for me academic-wise, i remember my marketing research class with the best professor i have ever had who believed in me, i remember enjoying dr. clark class, i remember klikmarketing.com, i remember my java chip frappucino that i got every morning before going to class, i remember studying at barnes noble, i remember the last home game, i remember the crazy crowd and the energy at the arena, i remember the march madness game at savvis center, i remember the sweet 16 team, kent williams, jermaine dearman, stetson hairston, darren brooks, roland roberts, marcus belcher, josh warren, brad korn, sylvester willis, david carney, i remember the ncaa, i remember the salukis beating texas tech and georgia, i remember the pep rally, i remember jd waving, i remember my glasses, i remember walking home from the pep rally that night, taking pictures in the snow with my first digital camera, watching the sweet sixteen game at the student center against uconn, i remember seeing roland roberts at the mall, i remember my red st. rose backpack that i have never changed during those 3.5 years of my college years, my TI 83 calculator, i remember that guy from the business department office who never registered me at the right classes, i remember house special chicken at kahala, william and his brother, i remember the tuna sandwich @ wiseguy, shawarma chicken, hunan chicken @ kahala, i remember the animal shelter i visited every week to look at the kittens, i remember d's visit every weekend, i remember driving back and forth to st. louis, i remember susi, ketut, iwan and made at le petite bistro galleria food court, i remember their apt behind borders brentwood, i remember going to the casino with them, i remember the late night talk every weekend with ben @ denny's, i remember siu edwardsville career fair, i remember chatting with ail everyday, i remember bumping with db on the stair on my way to class on tuesday morning during final week, i remember him asking for my number, i remember the outstanding student form i needed to get signed so my insurance rate could be lowered, yea i remember ayala insurance too, i remember picking up mom and dad at the airport, i remember my graduation ceremony, i remember the marketing 2002 t-shirt i got at the graduation, i remember crying on the stage when dr. summey hugged me, i remember my classmates and throwing the cap in the air together, i remember my dad wanted to go back to the hotel as soon as possible to watch trininad boxing match, i remember my japanese friend asking me to wait at the dorm just so we can take pictures with our cap and gown together, then there was the new york and the dc trip and i remember going back to carbondale to pack my stuff and moved to st. louis.

...and now here i am 4 years later..i still remember everything, every little things, every little details and every smell, i remember the knowledge, the ups and downs, the lesson of life i got, the laughters and the tears, the proud and the not so proud moment, the nice people i've met along the way and i appreciate all of it. more things have happened now and of course i remember them all too, i told you i have a pretty good memory..;)..and yea you can tell this is inspired by the back to school craze that everyone is experiencing right now, you lucky duck..i miss my college days!!

pre season hoops rankings

College Life April 11, 2006

the college basketball season has just ended, and with that..the medias have starting to release their projected rankings for next seasons. Most of them have the salukis somewhere from the the top 15 to the top 25. The highest is from the Sports Illustrated Magazine that has us ranked as the number 10!!!..you seee i wasn't drinking too much maroon kool aid when i said we'll be good next year..:p..

Here's the rankings:
1. Florida Gator
2. UNC Tar heel
3. UCLA
4. Memphis
5. Kansas
6. Ohio State
7. GeorgeTown
8. Texas
9. Texas A&M
10. Southern Illinois Salukis. The Salukis, who tied for second in the Missouri Valley Conference, have their top nine scorers back, including the senior backcourt of Jamaal Tatum and Tony Young, who will be gunning for their fourth -- and the school's sixth -- straight NCAA tournament appearance. Veteran squad + prior Big Dance experience + strong guardplay = dangerous in March. Blowout loss to West Virginia this year be damned.

Btw, here's an interesting list on why college basketball games are more fun to watch than the NBA (dikutip dari sini: http://www-tech.mit.edu/V123/N65/65_-_ncaa.65s.html)...hehe..I'm not a fan on the NBA, I guess I used to be a fan of lakers, but then I jumped off the bandwagon, hehe..but I'm still a fan of Mr. 81 though..=).

1. Egos
college basketball players always play their hearts out..and they are humbled by the fact that they are paid in education. beberapa dari mereka ada yang datang dari keluarga di bawah pas pasan, they live in the projects, and mostly the first generation in college, ada yang udah punya anak, ada yang keluarganya addicted to crack dan lain sebagainya..and most importantly they have to juggle between their academic responsibilities (Exams, assignments, group meetings, etc) and their responsibilities as atheletes (working out, practice, travelling, etc). Memang sih pemain nba juga pasti nya ada yang backgroundnya seperti itu, but once they are in nba of course they lead a pretty good and easy life.

2. Playing style
college basketball is more of a teamwork, not just relying on two or three stars for individual performances, like in the NBA. and plus the NBA is boooring..and the game is too long..:p.

3. College Fans
The feeling you get when you're in the arena is like no other. There is no NBA stadium that can produce the intensity and outright crazy fanaticism that college students show for their respective teams. You don’t see NBA stadiums filled with an entire section of screaming college fans all with painted bodies and choreographed, traditional tactics to disrupt the opposing team on free throws. It adds a level of excitement and enjoyment to college games that isn’t there in the NBA. The passion of college fans is so intense and so contagious it easily affects other people.

4. Parity
In any given year of college basketball, there are at least twenty teams that are good enough to win the championship, unlike the NBA, where you know a Western conference team will win, and you usually even know which one by the first round of the playoffs. In college b-ball, you never know until the final game who’s going to win since it's a one and done tournament. The greater number of teams also means there are more possible match-ups between good teams, and so generally more good games than in the NBA.

5. Permanence
In college, there is a much better chance the team you root for will be around for as long as you are, and there is no chance of the team being sold or moving cities. Along the same lines, the sheer number of college teams means that more people have a team they can root for, even if they do not live near a major city.

6. March Madness
This one goes pretty much without saying. To me, the NBA playoffs never come near to the excitement of March Madness. Thanks to office pools, just about everybody in the country fills out a bracket and discusses games over the water cooler. Throw in the fact that so many casual fans are rooting for either an alma mater or a state university in the field of 64, and it's easy to see how March Madness has become a social event.

bye bye J.J

College Life March 25, 2006

The MVC weekend..;)

College Life March 11, 2006

friday, March 3

d went home around noon, we watched wichita vs. indiana game and as expected, wichita won. after that, we watched creighton vs. bradley. bradley was the hottest team in the league, they had been on a nice winning streak coming into the tournament while creighton played without one of their starters due to injury, but dana altman is a very good coach so it still possible for creighton to come up with a win, but too bad they lost, i think it's the first time in a few years that they lost in the first round game. anyway..ben came right when the game was over so we left the house right away, picked up hana at school and went to savvis center. we already have the ticket that we bought yesterday, using the 10% off coupons from taco bell, hehe. tapi sayangnya duduknya di upper bowl, but there were lots of empty seats at the lower level so we just sit on those empty seats. it was a of course an exciting game, pretty high scoring for us who are not good offensively...we played against evansville, we lost the last time we played them so i knew we weren't gonna lose again..payback is a biatch baby. Jamal Tatum was the star that night, i know from now on we will always go to him no matter what, for better or worse, for richer and poorer, in sickness and in health.. Foster had a hell of a game too, the crowd went crazy when he threw in a dunk..he actually almost had a double2 that night. the sweet part was when the students started chanting for smithpeters to play, and when he had the ball and was wide open at the 3 point line, the students screamed..SHOOOOTT..haha..he shoot it and it went it..3 points for him..hehe.

abis itu ben went home and we decided to stay to watch missouri state vs. northern iowa, we're gonna face the winner of this game tomorrow. the game started 20 minutes after our session..jadi muter muter aja dulu, ordered some food and stuff. jibran seneng banget deh di ajak ke ball game gini, proudly wearing his salukis t-shirt..high fiving orang orang yang lewat di depannya, hehe..banyak yang manggil jibran lil' salukis. anyway..the first half of the next game nya lumayan seru sih, fansnya juga rame banget. Jibrannya udah mulai kecapean pas jam segitu..iya lah udah jam 9.30 an..jadi dia duduk aja di pangku. the salukis players came out of the locker room and sit around behind the bench and watched the game. pas half time d went to the ticket office to buy tickets for tomorrows game tapi sayang udah tutup..so we just had to get the ticket before the game tomorrow. pas second half kurang seru game nya, msu suddenly turned flat on the offensive end..so northern iowa it is for us tomorrow. Kita sampe rumah jam 11 malem, adit smsed congratulating on the win dan bilang kalo besok mau ikutan..yaayyy..the more the merrier...

saturday, March 4
pagi pagi udah bangun..hehe..padahal game nya jam 4..:p but we actually left the house around 11. Stopped by savvis center to buy the student tickets..tapi katanya boothnya baru buka sejam sebelum game nya mulai..huu. jadi ya udah kita ke delmar aja dulu, bought bubble tea and crispy chicken trus jemput adit di rumahnya, tante anne nawarin apa jibran mau di titipin ajaa...tapi kasian sih jibrannya soalnya dia udah tau kalo mau di ajak nonton basket dan udah teriak teriak S-I-U gitu..hehe, kan kasian..akhirnya gue bilang besok aja deh kalo misalnya nanti menang..:D. Di sana sekalian nonton wichita vs. bradley..tapi cuma sebentar sih nontonnya..soalnya harus buru2 balik ke savvis center lagi untuk beli ticket..ngantri nya panjang soalnya. sampe sana jam 3-an dan udah mulai pada ngantri, padahal ticket boothnya juga belum buka..and we only have 2 student id, jadi harus 2 orang yang ngantri..untung nggak ketauan pake ID yang sama. Setelah itu langsung masuk dan sempet nonton 3 menit terakhir gamenya wichita vs. bradley, and bradley prevailed and moved on to the final vs either us or UNI. This time kita dapet duduknya di student section, right behind the basket..jadi aja harus berdiri terus the entire game, hehe. Agak ngeri juga nih game ini, while we played good last night..UNI played good too although I don't know if they were that good last night or it was just MSU playing like crap.

The first few minutes of the game was pretty stressing to watch with the referees calling every ticky tack foul on our sides..huhu. the score at half time was 20-20..hehe, it's a pretty low scoring game, well what do you expect, we are a defensive minded team..:p. Dan lucunya..pas second half abis score nya 40-40..hehehe. northern Iowa was actually up by 2, 40 seconds left into the game..but mullins tied the game with a drive to the basket. Udah takut aja mereka bakalan hit game winning shot tapi untung aja jacobson missed his three..yayy..tony young did a good job defending him, so on to overtime. it started with a dunk from falker and he was fouled, so it was a 3-point play. shaw took over the game on overtime, i guess he wanted a win on his birthday!!

setelah itu, kita kemana yaaah...kayanya langsung ke party city di olive deh..sepanjang jalan ribut ngomongin game besok..hehe..iya lah championship game gitu loch and our post season is on the brink..kita mikirin pake baju apa, bawa sign apa..dll. adit came up with a few brilliant sign ideas..hehe..since it will be broadcasted on cbs, jadi lucu aja kalo ada CBS2 nya kaya: Curse Breaking Shoes (I will elabore more on that later..). Cool but So. ILL..haha..dan buat shaw ada I came, I shaw (instead of saw), I conquer..:D..waduuh udah excited banget dehh di jalan. Pas di party city juga ribuuutt banget kita..nyoba2 in wig dan pernak pernik lain, beli face paint, spidol, kacamata dan lain sebagainya. Abis itu kita ke northwest plaza untuk beli salukis t-shirt di steve and barry..trus langsung ke rumahnya adit dan mulai bikin signnya...eh enggak deh, adit, manda hana ke walmart dulu beli2 perlengkapan lagi..hehe..asli kita niaattt banget. Kayanya yang ada di sana (Reza, Freddy, Edwin, Melisa, Ading) pada bingung ngeliat kita mau pada ngapain sih sebenernya...hehehe. Tapi manda, Edwin sama Melisa jadi mau ikutan besok..sama happy juga..asiiiikk rame kaan jadinya. Ya udah Manda mulai bikin sign2nya..gue sih nontonin aja..hehe..maklum nggak kreatif..:p. Kita pulang sekitar jam 12 malem.

Sunday, March 5
This is the day..semalem sampe nggak bisa tidur gara gara mikirin hari ini, hehe..sampe jam 6 pagi juga udah bangun bangun terus..:p..akhirnya jam 8 bangun, siapin ini itu, siapin breakfastnya jibran, mandi, mandiin jibran dan lain lain sebagainya. Jam 10 lewat berangkat deh, ke rumahnya manda dulu..soalnya jibran mau di titipin di sana..sampe sana langsung pada pake atributnya masing masing, ada yang face painting, dll. Trus jam 11 lewat berangkat deh..Happy udah sampe sana duluan, lagi ngantri di ticket boothnya..padahal juga belum buka gitu.. Pas jam 12 baru buka, some girls from creighton were selling their student tickets for less than face value, jadi ya lumayan laahh.. we got our student tickets again and then off we went inside. Ternyata di dalem udah lumayan rame, dan kita lumayan di liatin orang orang..hahaha..seru deh pokonya seruuuu. Pas kita masuk aja itu kan masih 40 menit sebelum game nya mulai, tapi orang orang udah pada heboh. Pas first half nya seru gamenya..kita marah marahin wasitnya..hehehe, "wasit picek?!?!"..hihihi..sempet ketinggalan beberapa point juga but we managed to come back and only down by one at half time. the second half was another story..I don't know what got into the team during half time, but they really gave it their all and left everything on the court, it was by far the best effort from the team..really it was salukis basketball at its finest..they just kept scoring (i have never seen so many dunks in one game before) and scattered bradley's defense apart and they took their defense to another level, forcing turnovers and making bradley scoreless for more than 8 minutes. Pokonya seru seru seru...I screamed at the top of my lungs for the whole duration, sang the fight song and bouncing up and down till my belly h
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ts. Suasananya baru berubah waktu ada kejadian cheerleader jatuh seperti yang udah di ceritain di postingan sebelumnya. I think it was 3 minutes into the game, setelah gamenya di mulai lagi, Bradley stole an inbound pass twice and made two three pointer..huhu..i was a bit scared even though we were up by more than 10 point at that time, but we were fouled a couple of times and we made those free throws, shaw hit a three too and then some.

Waktu 2 menit terakhir itu..orang orang yang duduk di atas mulai pada turun, jadi pada mendekat ke courtnya gitu, udah siap siap mau storm the court..hahaha..gue juga udah bilang pokonya kalo menang i am storming the court..hihi...and I did..with thousands other people..:p. Pokonya pas buzzernya bunyi..semuanya langsung pada lari ke court..and the string streamer fell down from the rafters with the WE ARE THE CHAMPION song in the background..it felt so surreal..haha *norak*...trus ya udah abis itu kita foto2 dong, ngeliatin pemainnya yang lagi pada di interview, trus di set up panggung di courtnya to give them the award. Pemainnya udah pada pake championship t-shirt aja. Randal Falker was the MVP...he was really unstoppable in the second half...i told you he is one tough motherFalker..:PP..hahaa...talk about MEET THE FALKER!!!. Mullins came up big too, he only played for 5 minutes in the first half cause he had a sprained ankle..but he played for 16 minutes in the second half and the difference was clear..our offense was much better with mullins on the floor. he is a true point guard..even UNI coach complimented him on the post game interview yesterday, he basically said that if you look the word point guard on the dictionary, mullin's picture is on there, he is thaatt goood..=). anyway...abis itu gunting net nya deh..dan fans2nya masih asik aja gitu di dalem sampe securitynya escorted everybody out the court..hehe. Dari situ kita makan di Hooters Union Station..of course i was still smiling and just couldn't stop talking about the game..:P

This victory gave us the automatic bid to the NCAA Tournament, that was why winning the conference tournament was so important..soalnya kalo kemaren itu kita nggak menang, kayanya nggak bakalan masuk NCAA as an at large bid, kalo 4 taun berikutnya sih masih bisa since we finished first in the regular season, but our record was not as impressive this year. Soo happy for them to be able to keep the streak of the NCAA appearance (there are only 16 school in the nation that have been to the tournament 5 times in a row), so it is quite a record for the salukis. We are a young team, with no senior on the starting line up, that's why we've been so inconsistent dan nge break banyak good streak; home winning streak, the regular season champion, etc. But in the end, they did break the bad streak too; udah 10 taun lebih kita nggak pernah menang di MVC tournament ini even with a much superior team, but this team is capable of doing so, and most importantly ya the NCAA streak itu. So in the end, they won the game that's counted the most. It's gotta be the shoes babyy...hehehe. Biasanya kan pemainnya pake sepatu putih maroon, tapi jamaal tatum and tony young had an idea to make a fashion statement by changing the shoes for the tournament, jadi sepatu hitam dan kaos kaki hitam..katanya ya siapa tau aja jadi bisa menang, hehe..superstitious banget yaa..but whatever it took to win lah pokonya..lagian kan kalo hitam2 gitu jadinya kan garang dan arrogant aja keliatannya, so maybe it boosted their confidences..and hey it worked!! Good job guys...now make some noise in the NCAA!!!

final four weekend

College Life April 23, 2005

Click on the image above to see pictures from the event.

Seneng deh pas weekend itu (2 minggu lalu). Downtown st. louis berubah jadi rame dan meriah sekali..entah berapa puluh ribu orang tuh yang dateng ke sini untuk nonton final four, baik nonton langsung di edward jones dome nya atau yang nonton rame rame di bar. Banyaak banget calo2 ticket berkeliaran di downtown...pingin sih sebenernya nonton..but not for $600..:P, we should've registered our name in the lottery last year, siapa tau bisa dapet ticketnya..walaupun lumayan mahal juga ($150)..but the experience will be priceless...apalagi taun ini for the first time in so many years that the number 1 seats meet in the final, everybody has been imagining this match up since the season started. Oh well..

Tapi tetep seru juga sih weekend itu walopun nggak nonton langsung, banyak acara2 lain yang bisa di ikutin. Hari kamis malemnya ada slam dunk and three point contest di washington university..tadinya pingin kesana..tapi entah kenapa nggak jadi..yang ada nonton dari rumah aja. Hari jum'at nya ada team practice...went to downtown with Jibran..pas udah sampe sana baru ngeh kalo gue pake jacket ijo, jadi banyak yang mikir kalo gue fansnya michigan kali yaa..pantesan dari tadi kalo ketemu orang2 pake baju ijo2 gue di senyumin trus kalo ada mobil plat michigan lewat gue juga di klakson2..hehehe. Pas nyampe edward jones...antriannya panjang banget..pas lagi ngantri trus di samperin petugasnya lagi..katanya gue nggak boleh masuk bawa stroller..soalnya udah kebanyakan yang nitip stroller di kantor guest service nya..kecuali kalo gue bisa nunjukin metro ticket (bukti kalo gue ke downtown naik kereta..jadi mau nggak mau strollernya emang harus di bawa)...tapi kan kita nyetir..and i parked the car like 6 or so freaking blocks from there..erghh..nyebelin nih peraturannya...bisa aja sih minta ke orang yang punya metro ticket ..tapi males banget harus nanyain semuanya satu2. Trus akhirnya gue samperin aja petugas yang lain yang cewe dan dengan masang muka memelas gue bilang kalo gue tuh dateng all the way from out of town to see the practice..masa udah sampe sana tau2 nggak di bolehin siihhh..hihi..akhirnya dia kasian kali..trus dia bilang ya udah strollernya tinggalin disitu aja deh, tapi dia nggak tanggung sih kalo ilang..ya udah lah coba aja..daripada gue nggak nonton sama sekali mendingan stroller ilang..hihihi..lagian tuh illinois udah mau selesai practicenya..jadinya gue nggak mau mikir lama2.

Pas udah di dalem, wahh kaget juga liat orang segitu banyaknya..40 something thousands gitu..padahal kan ini practice aja..but almost the entire seats was filled. Gue kira gue bisa jalan2 di courtside nya and take pictures of the players up close...boohoo salah besar ternyata...hehe..gue kemaren duduk pas di sebelah CBS broadcast sectionnya, jadi lumayan lah at least bisa ngeliat broadcasternya kaya craig gumbell, clark kellog and seth davis..hehe. Kalo ESPN nggak di dalem edward jones dome nya, tapi di Union Station..padahal pingin juga liat Dicky V, Digger and Jay Bilas...*pingin nimpuk maksudnya*..haha...! Setelah illinois selesai, giliran UNC yang main...there were coach williams, sean may and co...kalo pas ini yang nonton nggak sebanyak Illinoi so we can move closer to the floor...seru juga sih practice nya apalagi pas dunk sessionnya. Anywayy....abis itu rencananya kita mau nonton NBC all star game Vs. Globetrotters (sp?) di savvis center...tapi malah jadi pada males gitu...akhirnya makan di King n I and browsed west county mall.

Sabtu nya cuma lewatin downtown aja ngeliat2 keramean, tapi nggak turun. Pas hari minggu nya baru kesana, ada taste of st. louis, ada concert (kelly clarkson, better than ezra to name a few)..dan banyak atraksi2 lain...ada concert nelly sih walaupun nggak berhubungan dengan final four..kebetulan pas aja waktunya. Dari situ kita jalan kaki ke union station and on the way there i saw this guy..

di depan Hyatt..not sure of who he was sih..tadinya kirain chingy ato siapa gitu..but i knew he was somebody famous soalnya orang pada minta tanda tangan dan ada bodyguards nya di sekelilingnya, his flashy cadillac escapade was waiting for him and there was this very coutured girl who looks like one of the girls in the hiphop video carrying her L'Ingénieux PM Suhali. Turned out it was T.I, the rapper from atlanta..I did take his picture...you can see it in the PEOPLE album in my photo gallery.

Anywayy..kita main2 aja di union station, liat2 merchandise nya final four, jibran got an NCAA 2005 ball from Bude Dien...trus kita makan di KC Masterpiece....my first time there and it was the worst dining experience i have ever encountered deh..will.never.go to.kc.masterpiece.ever.again!!!..no it's not the food..we didn't even get the chance to taste it...it was something else. But it was a good weekend nonetheless..jibran had so much fun running around everywhere.

Hari senennya championship game...and hiks.... illinois picked a bad night to have their poor shooting..but in the end, they only lose by 5 despite their inability to get the ball in the basket..I don't think Coach weber was outcoached as they did get open looks, but they just couldn't get it done. Too bad..but congrats for UNC though.

And with all that being said..it's been a fun season...and i miss my salukis already...i've been trying to compose all the pictures i have (taken and stolen..:p) and upload it in my album, belum selesai sih..but you can view it in my photo gallery under SALUKIS...gotta love the human side of basketball...for me there's more to basketball than basketball yang kalo pun gue jelasin disini juga mungkin nggak bakal ada yang ngerti..hehe...Have a nice weekend all..=)

Great Season Salukis

College Life March 21, 2005

I hate to lose, but the salukis didn't dissapoint anyone today, they played their heart out and showed valiant effort, there are absolutely no reason to hang their head down. Oklahoma state is a damn good team, one of the best teams in all the land of college basketball (if i'm not mistaken 4 of their starters were in Final FOUR last year) and we battled them well..we were the one with the lead most of the time, until a few minutes of the second half. It hurts, but it doesn't sting as much. I'm sad to see the dissapoinment in Darren Brook's face when the buzzer beat and to see Matt shaw broke down on the bench, i think he feels bad for the seniors. Boy there are sure a lot of crying in this NCAA tournament, like a quote from the msg boards. "All 65 teams are gonna cry at some point during the tournament, 64 teams will cry due to losing and only one team will cry tears of joy when they win the National Championship on April 4th....only one team".

My complain is only the home court advantage..i think they have the biggest homecourt advantage of the tourney, the crowd was just ridiculous and we got homered on a couple of questionable calls so we were killed with their almost perfect free throws, they have 29 points from the charity stripe alone!!!. It would've been a different story if it were played on a neutral floor. Heck we'll take them again anyday of the week, anytime of the day and twice on sunday on a neutral floor!!..hehehe... But coach sutton is a class act and so are the players, he was praising us in the press conference which helps to soothe the wounds. I think i will root for them all the way (except when they play illini cause i'm a fan of coach weber) so we can say that we lost to the champion!!..hihi...

All in all, thanks to all the players, especially the seniors (particularly Darren Brooks and Stetson Hairston), thanks for another memorable year of basketball. I'm so sad that they have to leave us..I'm gonna miss watching them play in salukis jersey. I hope they can have a great career right after they graduate, I know Darren is an NBA prospect and have been invited to the NBA camp, i hope he can make the second round draft if not the first round. Hmm now that I think about it.. i could have dated an nba player..hehehe..man i sound like a groupie..oh well but that's a whole other story..:P. On the meantime..here's to another great season. Go Salukis!

King James is in Da House!!

College Life October 21, 2004

Before I forget..Happy Ramadhan untuk semua yang berpuasa...mudah2an puasanya lancar dan tidak bolong2. Mohon maaf lahir batin ya..=)

Watched Cavaliers Vs. Chicago Bulls game at the Savvis Center last saturday. Sshhh..don't tell anyone...but it was my first nba game..hehehe. I was happy to see a few familiar faces like drew gooden, hinrich, duhon, luong deng (sp?) that I knew from their college basketball years. After that we all went to Manda's house and even had sahur together at around 2 o'clock..and finally went home at 2.30 in the morning.

We had a permias election in the afternoon on the same day. Dinar is the new president, Etha is the new secretary and Mikie is the new treasurer..we also had an Indonesian Student Association at UMSL election at the same time..Sigit is the vp and Manda is the secretary..they both have served last year and got reelected for the new officer..and Wulan is the SGA representative. (ps:their blogs can be accessed through my exit page). Congrats to all of you..I think it's something to have a lot of people trust you to lead an organization, it says a lot about you..especially your leadership skill. More power to the girls who ocupy most of the positions..yay..*lho kok jadi feminisme gini*..hihi. Btw, Girl/Woman power is actually one bright side that we can see if Bush gets reelected..so that Hillary can run for president in 2008.

Hari minggu nya went to global food and pengajian.

Monday: Monday is not so membetekan anymore now that my class is on tuesday. got my period..so i didn't fast..bikin makanan banyak...bakwan dan tahu goreng, rendang dan es teler.

Tuesday: School day, i'm happy with my group. sebelum sekolah mampir bubble tea dulu. siangnya sempet masak2 lagi, this time is sambel tempe. Epi was home went i went back from school.

Wednesday: Stayed at home the whole day, tried to clean up the whole house...how did i get into all of these mess!?!..bikin nasi uduk..yum yum

Thursday: Jibran's school day, abis itu mungkin jalan2 ke galleria dan ke target.

ttyl everyone!

My Thought on Education

College Life August 11, 2004

Bulan July kemaren...sodara gue yang umurnya 4 tahun baru masuk pre-school di Jakarta di daerah deket rumahnya. Kayanya disana namanya KB/Kelompok Bermain yah?..Sekolahnya nggak setiap hari, tapi masih tiga minggu sekali..yah namanya juga masih sekolah sekolahan. Dan untuk sekolah sekolahan ini…ada peraturan untuk memakai seragam untuk murid muridnya. Duh please deh, itu tuh cuma pre-school aja..masa di haruskan pakai seragam juga sih?..Udah TK, SD, SMP, SMA nya pakai seragam setiap hari (that’s like the first 17 years of your life)..ini lagi playgroup gitu aja ikut ikutan. Pantes aja orang orang di Plaza Senayan pun bajunya agak2 berseragam (KWIM?). Soalnya dari kecil kreatifitas berpakaiannya di batasi, makanya jadi gak kreatif.(ya gue pun salah satu korbannya..hehe). Kalau untuk sekolah negri sih memang lebih bagus pakai seragam untuk tidak menonjolkan perbedaan…karena muridnya datang dari berbagai kalangan, ada yang anaknya konglomerat (ada nggak sih yang di sekolahin di SD negri?? Ada kali yaa??) sampai anaknya tukang beras di pasar juga ada. Tapi kalo untuk sekolah swasta yang notabene muridnya datang dari kalangan yang sama..apalagi untuk sebuah playgroup kayanya terlalu di ada adain banget deh peraturan berseragam itu.

Selain soal seragam..ada lagi yang bikin gue kaget…apalagi kalo bukan tuition fee nya yang mahalnya nggak kira kira. Mahal with the capital M!!!. It costs them Rp. 20 juta setahun…I was stunned...20 juta setaun??..Reallyy??..Timbang ngajarin nyanyi balon ku ada lima sama aku seorang kapiten aja 20 juta setaun?. Tapi ternyata murid muridnya banyak juga lho…dan sekolah itu bukan satu satu nya yang memasang harga tinggi…karena sekarang udah banyak banget sekolah sekolah di Jakarta yang supermahal, dari mulai playgroup sampai SMA. Mereka menawarkan fasilitas yang lebih dari sekolah sekolah biasa, guru guru yang (katanya) berkwalitas dan system pendidikan yang lebih meng-International. Are those school really superior than other ‘regular’ school??..Kalo gue sendiri masih skeptical karena belum ada bukti nyata nya, karena sekolah sekolah tersebut masih cenderung baru..jadi belum jelas apa betul mereka dapat mencetak sumber daya manusia yang berkwalitas.

Nanti kalo kita udah balik ke Jakarta..gue mau sekolahin Jibran di sekolah yang biasa biasa aja..not in one of those super expensive schools..biar dia terbiasa untuk berinteraksi sama temen temennya yang dari berbagai kalangan dan nggak melulu melihat ke atas. Kalo bisa sekolah negri yang bagus ya negri aja…kalo pun swasta yah yang normal normal aja..pendidikan OK with decent tuition fee.. kaya Al-Azhar or Labschool (sekolah gue dulu)..atau kalo cewe di Tarki banjiir..hehe. Kalo gue pribadi sih..nggak masalah nyekolahin anak di sekolahan yang non muslim..karena menurut gue..tujuan utama sekolah itu bukan untuk menimba ilmu agama lagipula agama itu bukan tanggung jawab sekolah, tapi tanggung jawab bapak ibunya. Pokonya I’m not that strict when it comes to education deh, maksudnya TK-SMA (kalo kuliah sih lain ceritanya cause I believe that is the stage when education really matters). TK sampai SMA sih santai2 aja lahh…I’m not gonna put him in the so called acceleration class even if he is qualified (dulu di sd nya sekolah gue ada program SD 5 tahun). Trus juga gue bukan tipe yang memalsukan birth certificate just so he can go to school earlier than he is supposed to. Banyak lho yang kaya gitu and I just don’t understand that. Gue cuma mau Jibran menikmati hari hari nya just like a normal kid, to have a wonderful and memorable childhood...I'll try my best to give him the best I can for a happy childhood life..cause I believe that's when a character is built. I want to give him the idea that we are not placed in this world just to go to school, graduate and get a job…that there’s something more to life than that. Dan gue nggak mau Jibran tua sebelum waktunya..kan suka ada tuh di berita tentang anak kecil yang udah bisa menghafal nama nama duta besar Indonesia lah, siapa sekertaris PBB lah ini itu or even writing a letter to the president asking why such and such things happen to our beloved country..those things really freak me out.

By the way..kalau ngebayangin system pendidikan di Indonesia memang bikin sedih banget yah. Gue sih tadinya nggak begitu perduli..tapi sekarang setelah punya Jibran dan ngebayangin the education system that he has to go trough later on jadi sering kepikiran aja. Apalagi kalo di bandingkan sama disini..wah beda banget deh. Visi dan misi nya juga udah beda sekali. Kayanya di Indonesia penekannya lebih ke hal hal yang membosankan seperti menulis..sampe ada kelas khusus untuk menulis waktu SD, menulis halus lah yang pake buku garis tiga, menulis cetak, sambung..terus terusan aja belajar nulis yang nggak penting. Kalo disini tulisan bule bule emang jelek jelek semua..karena waktu mereka di sekolah lebih di habiskan untuk hal hal yang menarik dan menyenangkan. Di SD juga berhitungnya banyak sekali..makanya kalo orang Indonesia pindah sekolah disini menganggap calculation disini itu piece of cake sekali karena kita sudah lebih di ajarin yang lebih complicated dengan mereka walaupun dalam level yang sama. Yah sebenernya ini mungkin ada bagusnyajuga sih kali ya..tapi apa perlu anak kecil di bebani hitung hitungan yang banyak begitu??..Apalagi di Indonesia itu di haruskan untuk menghafal puluhan rumus…haduuh..padahal disini aja sampe yang master juga kalo ada ujian hitung hitungan rumusnya tetep di kasih tau..jadi kita nggak usah repot2 ngapalin..yang penting kita tahu bagaimana caranya mengotak atik rumus tersebut. Belum lagi hapalan yang lain seperti nama nama mentri..wtf..untuk apaaa coba. Kalo disini kegiatan kegiatan anak sekolahnya lebih mengarah pada pengembangan bakat si anak, kemampuan mencipta dan mengemukakan pendapat. Ah kalo ngomongin soal ini sih nggak ada abisnya kali yahh?..

Friday Muse

College Life August 06, 2004

Asiik..udah hari Jum'at lagi..we're going to Carbondale for the weekend. Sekarang Jibrannya masih tidur..lucu deh tidurnya matanya di tutupin pake tangannya. Pipinya Jibran minggu lalu udah sembuh..tapi trus merah lagi gara gara di kasih binkie yang lebar..Dari dulu gue pikir penyebab merah2nya itu memang binkie nya...tapi dokternya bilang itu gara2 solid food, karena kalo makan trus yang belepotan ke pipi pipi makanannya. Ternyata bener kan setelah binkie nya di ganti dan di kasih salep langsung mendingan merahnya..tapi waktu itu binkie yang kecilnya ketinggalan di mobil...jadi terpaksa pake yang besar..dan besoknya langsung merah2 lagi.

See..a mother knows best about her baby. It's not that I don't trust the doctor..I listen to everything she says tapi nggak langsung di turutin semuanya..cari cari info juga online, ask my mom and other moms out there..dan terakhirnya just go with whatever works for you. Contohnya dokter nya Jibran bilang kalo malem nggak usah di nurse lagi, just let him cry it out..soothe him by patting him, etc..but do not nurse him. Nah untuk yang ini gue kayanya nggak tega yah..he is only 6 months old..kita aja yang udah besar gini kadang kalo malem malem bangun suka haus kan?..and so do babies. I'm not crazy about putting him on schedule and not desperate enough to get him to sleep through the night...I realized it from the beginning that it comes with the package. Besides, maybe I should thank god that he is a light sleeper instead..cause most of the sudden infant death syndrome cases happen to babies who are heavy sleeper. So anyway..I'm not listening to the doctor on this way..maybe i'll just cut down the length of the nursing session during the night gradually..

Sekarang Jibran makannya udah sehari dua kali...the menu usually vegetables in the morning (around 10) and fruits in the evening (around 7)...or pagi pagi di kasih vegetables mixed with fruits dan malemnya di kasih cereal. Dokternya bilang sih jibran jangan di kasih cereal..but i give it to him anyway walaupun nggak sering2 banget..I figure he needs the extra calorie since he is so active. Makanannya Jibran sekarang udah homemade semua...dulu pertama aja nyobain gerber yang applesauce, peach, pear, peas, carrot, green bean, squash. Setelah itu bikin sendiri..ternyata it's so much fun making baby foods. Dan sekarang udah nggak yang single ingredients lagi, tapi campur campur. Mango+Banana or Butternut Squash+Peach or Carrot+Potato+Brocolli..pokonya di campur campur aja deh. Hampir semua sayur dan buah udah di cobain..chicken is next..mungkin minggu depan kali yah mau gue kasih ayam dan nasi tim saring..

Giving Jibran a bath is a real challenge nowadays..not that he doesn't want to..he loves bath time, he loves splashing the water and playing with his rubber ducky..dan dia juga dari sejak umbilical cord nya lepas selalu di mandiin setiap hari, sometimes 2 a day. Tapi sekarang Jibran itu bener bener nggak bisa diem...udah beberapa kali dia hampir mukanya hampir tenggelam di bak mandi nya..kalo enggak airnya masuk mulut lah ini..itu..ngeri banget deh. He somehow can pull himself to a stand position when he is in his bath tub. Kalo lagi di sabunin juga nggak mau diem..balik kesana kesini..padahal kan gue megangnya licin gitu..semua barang barang yang di sekitarnya di ambilin dan di jatuhin satu satu..he likes to see whatever he is holding falling down the floor. Jadi sekarang mandiinnya cepet2 terus..kalo dulu kan santai2 aja..biarin dia main2 dulu.

He babbles a lot too..MAMAMAMAMA...BABABABA...DADADADADA....NYANYANYANYA...dua hari ini dia lagi seneng ngeliatin telapak tangannya..he makes a fist..and then he opens it..begitu terus sambil di liatin in amazement..trus jempolnya di sentuh ke jari jari lainnya..kaya orang lagi berdzikir..sambil di liatiin terus tangannya..mungkin dia baru tau kali yah.."oh ini bisa di gerakin kaya gini"...lucu yaa. Trus sampe sekarang untungnya Jibran belum kena sama yang namanya stranger anxiety..he loves everybody just the same..well nggak semua sih..soalnya ternyata Jibran takut sama orang berkumis...hihihi..ada 2 yang kumisan dan jibran nggak mau di gendong sama mereka..kadang mau sih but mostly nggak mau, di ajak bercanda mau mau aja asal jangan sampe nge gendong. Trus satu lagi Jibran takut sama yang kepala nya botak..hehehe..padahal dia sendiri kan juga botak. One of my friends here (Epi) used to have a long hair and he just shaved his head..dulu yang jibran biasa aja main sama dia sekarang jadi nggak mau sama sekali..but he is always stare at him..sepertinya penasaran..as long as that person doesn't stare back at him he's fine..kalo di lirik langsung nangis dia..hehe. Makanya skarang Epi nya kalo ada Jibran selalu pake topi..hehe dan Jibrannya mau mau aja tuh...

Jibran juga ternyata manja sekali sama mama nya..kalo pagi dia asik asik aja main sendiri di depan tv dan gue nya di dapur..but as soon as he sees me..langsung deh minta di temenin..jadi gue kalo udah di dapur ya di dapur aja jangan keluar keluar sampe selesai. Waktu itu beberapa kali di titipin di tante anne pas gue bolak balik ke dentist juga gitu...seru aja dia main main sama orang orang but when he saw me entered the room..langsung nangis manja gitu. Palingan kalo gue lagi di dapur..i park him in front of the tv dan mainannya di sebarin di sekelilingnya...bisa deh dia main main sendiri up to an hour..tapi beberapa detik sekali gue intip sih dia lagi ngapain..as long as suaranya masih kedengeran that means he's ok..tapi kalo nggak ada suaranya..tandanya jibran lagi chewing on electrical cords!!..oh no...

Oh iya..Jibran udah 2 kali nih hampir jatoh..belum jatoh sih tapi udah lumayan di pinggir and once he rolls over he'll land his cute butt on the floor..untung gue pas lagi liat..huhu..ngeri banget deh ngebayangin kalo dia jatoh gimana..so far sih belum pernah but I know he will...mudah mudahan aja jatohnya nggak heboh. Sekarang palingan lagi sering seringnya kejedot kalo roll over..abisnya dia suka seenaknya aja naro kepalanya pas berbalik..untung lantainya karpet.

Waaahh udah panjang niih...ntar sambung lagi deh. Have a nice weekend everybody..=))

6 months

College Life July 20, 2004

Hari ini Jibran 6 bulan...happy b'day my Chunkie Munkie!!. Sabtu kemarin Jibran ke dokter..and this time daddy finally got to come with us for the first time. Jibran got 4 shots...yang pertama dia diem aja...he was like "hmm this is a piece of cake..i can handle this"...hehe..yang kedua he cringed a little bit dan kaya mau nangis gitu..yang ketiga sama keempat baru deh teriak.....tapi itu juga cuma sebentar..he cried for less than 30 seconds. Seneng banget dia di dokternya..smiling at the nurse and the doctors..playing around with paper sheet that covers the bed..soalnya kan kertasnya berisik kalo kita bergerak..so he loved it..creeping around here and there sampe dia hampiiiiiirrr aja jatoh..man my heart skipped a beat at that time..nggak ngerti gimana kalo sampe jatoh tuh..soalnya tempat tidurnya kan tinggi..dan bawahnya ubin. Untuung aja enggak. Bayi umur segini ini lagi mulai nggak bisa diem dan biasanya jatoh pertama kali umur2 segini....gue udah bilang sama jibran..kalo mau jatoh pegangaan yaaa mbul...hehehe. Anyway, here's his measurement:

Weight: 17 Lbs 12 Oz or 8.05 Kg

Height: 27 3/4 Inches or 70.5 Cm

Overall he is doing good....the doctor can't believe how active he is and when she felt his gum she said that a tooth is about to cut through..hmm reallyyy??...padahal sih kalo gue perhatiin kayanya gum nya nggak ada yang beda deh..so we'll see. Trus katanya Jibran doesn't need a middle of the night feeding..so do not nurse him when he wakes up in the middle of the night..kecuali kalo kita tau he went to sleep with an empty tummy. Kalo pas tidur udah kenyang..just pat him, soothe him, give him his pacifier..but don't nurse him or pick him up..(JIbraaan..did you hear that???). Solid is twice a day and is okay now to give him chicken/turkey.

Trus di kasih perscription untuk rash di pipi nya Jibran..kasian udah sebulan lebih rashnya nggak ilang2. Enggak ngerti gara2 kenapa..probably from the food...soalnya kalo makan kan nggak bisa diem..so the food is all smeared on his face...jadi mungkin alergi..kata dokternya sebelum di kasih makan pipinya di olesin vaselin dulu..so the food doesn't touch the skin directly. Mudah2an cream yang baru di kasih ini manjur deh...well it better be..it costs a freaking $188...we paid $70 and the insurance takes care the rest...

Jibran's 1st 4th of July

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Long Weekend

College Life July 04, 2004

Asiik..this weekend is a long weekend, soalnya kan pas 4th of july. Ternyata di jakarta long weekend juga yah...PEMILU boww. Speaking of pemilu, kemaren pas nyokap telfon..katanya baru dateng ber dus dus kaos dengan gambar salah seorang kandidat untuk di bagi bagiin..hihi..iseng banget deh bokap gue.

Anywayy, Jibran was being such an eaassyyy baby yesterday, emang dia juga nggak fussy sih biasanya, tapi tadi dia main2 sendiri di exercausernya lama banget. I put the exercauser in the bathroom, and then i took a shower, biasanya baru 5 menit aja dia udah bosen main sendiri, tapi tadi enggak and i even took a longer shower than usual....shampooing my hair and all that. Trus abis pake baju dia masih asik aja main, so I blow dry my hair dan dia cuma ngeliatin bingung dengerin suara hair dryer nya..sambil terus main main. Setelah rambut gue kering..ternyata dia belum bosen mainnya..so i plugged in the flat iron and begin straightening my hair..sampe udah selesai dia juga masih asik main2..=))..pinternya anakku

Sekarang Jibran udah bisa tengkurep sendiri...I thought he's just gonna skip that stage, tapi hari kamis kemarin ternyata dia ngebalik sendiri dan terus2an aja guling2an, kalo di taro di karpet ngegelindingnya juga udah lumayan jauh. Kalo tengkurep juga bisa mundur2, bukan crawling sih..tapi kaya nge gelesot gitu..kaya tiarap trus mundur2..lucu deh kalo mau mundur pantatnya di nunggingin trus di dorong ke belakang..hehehehe. Sekarang Jibran udah agak susah di tinggal sendirian, biasanya kan dia main sendiri di depan tivi, guenya di dapur trus dia yah biasa aja. Kalo sekarang kadang2 ngeliat gue walk away from his side langsung teriak gitu. Soalnya kemaren ini kan sebulan ada yangti nya, so he's never alone even for one minute..kecuali kalo lagi tidur. Kalo sekarang kan cuma gue sendiri aja di rumah sendirian. Lagian ternyata umur segini ini cara berpikirnya lagi.."out of sight, out of mind"...jadi menurut dia kalo kita nggak keliatan, berarti kita nggak ada, walaupun ternyata cuma di ruang sebelah. Sekarang juga emotional feelingnya udah mulai terbentuk. Kalo dia lagi asik mainin mainannya trus tau2 di ambil..pasti langsung nangis, kalo dulu kan di ambil diem aja. Kalo ke supermarket, dia suka mainin barang belanjaannya..trus kalo pas di kasir kan harus di scan..nah pas di ambil tuh langsung ngamuk. Apa yang lagi gue pegang pasti di ambil, waktu itu gue lagi minum bubble tea trus di minta..ya udah gue kasih dia pegang...tapi abis itu nggak boleh gue ambil lagi..huhu. Trus juga I think he knows his name, kalo denger namanya di sebut suka nengok trus senyum2. Kalo nangis kadang suka bersuara.."Muh..Muh.."...it sounds like Mama..or is it Mamam??..lucu banget deh.

Anyway..have a nice long weekend everybody..=))

HANZKY

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